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My PITA Score Has Gone Up By One


Let’s hear it for my PITA (Pain In The A**) Radar!


In eleven years and well over 1500 clients, I have a total career score of just FOUR (4) PITA clients. I just “fired” the latest for being a bully and a “scope creep”  Creep.


And I notified the powers-that-be on the platform where we connected (Upwork–aka “Upchuck”, formerly Elance) to document what I did for her and what she then expected me to do (scope creep) for the same amount of money. I want to make sure they’re aware that she may (may!) be doing this to other providers, hoping she’ll get dumped so she can get away with not paying at all for the work she has them do.


I also sent her a notice that the words I wrote for her (in their unique configurations) are my intellectual property and that she needs to pay me for them if she plans to use them…and that I’ll be watching her website to be sure she isn’t using them without paying me for them.


I would so love to publish her name so you won’t run afoul of her shenanigans, but alas… that would be tacky and unprofessional. But I’m happy to give it to you. Just email me to get it. I don’t want other professional service providers to get bullied and treated by her the way I was for not agreeing to do her bidding without adequate compensation.


I think Trump has brought out the ogre in a lot of employers and clients. Since he can screw people and get away with it, they figure they ought to be able to, too.


Well, guess what?  I’m not the type to just bend over and take it. I’ll slap down anyone who tries, and I’ll report them, too!


I’m a real advocate when it comes to fighting injustice and unfair treatment–have you noticed?


Thought so!


PITA clients are usually identifiable up front


  • They’re unreasonably angry at some ethereal “other” (quite often the customers they want flocking to them!). Even in writing–in black and white–they’re demanding and uncharitable. “My customers should KNOW I’m the best thing since sliced bread. Isn’t it OBVIOUS?! Why aren’t they coming in?!!!”   (Any guesses why, sports fans, with an attitude like that?)
  • They’re impatient. They want your best/the best possible result, but they want it “yesterday”. They don’t have time to wait for exceptional results; they want your absolute best within hours (to save them money).
  • They’re stingy. They don’t want to pay what something is worth, let alone rush fees when they want it FAST!
  • They blame others for their failure to plan ahead. “This is an emergency!” usually means “I didn’t get around to doing this until just now and my deadline is two days from now, so now you have to hurry to keep my bacon out of the fire.”
  • Their project descriptions denigrate the other providers who have served them. “I tried getting this done already by a so-called writer, but they were ham-handed/useless/unskilled.” (Of course, they paid next to nothing to get it done the first time and don’t want to pay much more to get it fixed, and…. hello, you get what you pay for!!!  Hire a bargain basement writer, or pay bargain basement prices, and get bargain basement quality and results. It’s simple cause and effect!)

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Hit Another Writing Assignment Out of the Ball Park!

There are times when I surprise myself–I mean really, really surprise myself–as a professional writer. I wish I could be more specific here and give you details and even brief excerpts, but the client I’m serving asked me to sign an NDA (a Non-Disclosure Agreement) so I have to keep under my hat all aspects that might identify this nationally-renowned organization.


Pity. I sooooooo wish I could tout my association with this company to the moon and back! I love it; I have been a beneficiary of its mission ever since  grade school (and so have you, probably); its existence, then and now, has continued to abundantly bless me–and probably you and your children and grandchildren as well.


But perhaps it’s enough to say that I took a bullet list of talking points sent to me by the executive assistant of the president of this company and turned them into a year-end letter to the company’s employees. It took me about fifteen minutes to fashion the first draft and another twenty five or so to make it stellar (but I just charged for 30 minutes because of the blessing they’ve been to the nation for decades).


I thought the result of my laser-like efforts was awfully good; certainly more than sufficient to offer as the “first submitted draft” for the executive’s assistant’s and president’s review.  The response I got back from the executive assistant confirmed this: “This is lovely! Thank you!!”  So it was a done deal and they were satisfied. YAY!


But it was while I was re-reading it this morning from a truly objective viewpoint (not as its author but as its ‘recipient’) that I  realized how great it really is.  I knew when I sent it that I could claim it as my own (that I wouldn’t be embarrassed had it gone out under my own signature), but I really had no idea that I would get goosebumps and a tear in my eye this morning when I read it again!  I mean, that just doesn’t happen every day!!!


It isn’t often that I knock my own socks off, because I expect good: I expect to exceed the expectations of my clients; but rarely do I exceed MY expectations. (I expect to exceed my own expectations about as often as any other artist –which is “next door to never“)!


So to say “I’m happy” with the result is underplaying my emotion by a bunch.  I wish I could exactly feel this way about every piece I write for clients. But if I could do that, I’d have to have a keyboard connected to heaven instead of to my all-too-human fingertips.


But when something super-satisfying like this happens, I know without a doubt, that my muse has divine connections. I’ve always known that. To take total credit for this kind of result on my merits along would be unforgivable arrogance.


I love words. God produced my brain and its love of words.


“In the beginning was the word.”


Words create our worlds. We use them (wisely or unwisely, artfully or not) to build or to destroy, to elevate orto subjugate, to aspire or to vegetate, to inspire and energize or bring people to a standstill.


I’m immensely grateful that I love words so. And I’m grateful that others understand the immense value of powerful writing. Without those folks, I’d be in a world of hurt because I make my living stringing words together to best effect.


Wordsmith the perfect profession for me…